lingerie

Been to a sex store lately?

Been to a sex store lately? 1354 437 Galia Brener

Dear ladies, this one is for you. Love is a very nice thing to have, but even true love, and especially love making with the same partner can get monotonous over the years. This doesn’t mean that you are a bad partner, or not good in bed. Not at all! It’s just the normal human psychological workings to get used to and bored of the routine, and the “usual”. Even the boyfriend of a supermodel will eventually start getting used to having her around, and the special spark will eventually wear down. That is the normal process of a long-term relationship. However, we are women and quite clever ones, with many tricks up our sleeves. Here is how you can spice up your love life and keep things interesting.

Women connect emotionally, but men connect physically. Never underestimate the power of seduction and experimentation! My friend Ambrosia was dating an oligarch for two years, when she started noticing a decline in their sex life. Let me mention that Ambrosia is 180 cm tall, has long shiny blonde hair, full sensual lips, and a body more perfect than any supermodel I know! She is drop-dead gorgeous, and intelligent as well. She came to visit me in Frankfurt last year, and started crying on my couch. “Gali, he comes home in the evening, we watch TV and he goes straight to bed. When we do have sex, it’s the usual position for a few minutes only, and then he falls asleep. I’m scared that he’s bored of me, doesn’t love me anymore, and will cheat with someone else soon! Help me!!” Wow. I did not expect to hear this from the most beautiful girl in the world with her perfect oligarch boyfriend. I asked her some important questions, and concluded that the love is still there. He was very much in love with her, but it was a simple case of needing more fire in the bedroom. We set out on a mission of “Get-your-hot-sex-back”, and I took Ambrosia to the best store in Frankfurt called Inside Her.

Ambrosia was quite shy to enter the store, so I just pushed her in and said to get over herself. The first stop in the store was the vibrators. We picked out a nice We Vibe 4, which works simultaneously on the g-spot and clit. And yes girls, you can get it in pink as well. But most importantly, her oligarch can control it with a distance remote control, so I told her to wear it the next time they go out for dinner together. Talk about a truffle pasta with a happy ending! Next we went to the bondage area. We picked out a nice set of black silk ribbons to tie the hands together, and a matching mask to cover her eyes. This is a game of trust, where her man will tie her up, and slowly explore her body with his hands, tongue and the new vibrator. She looked at me like she just fell off the moon, but I convinced her to buy it anyways. Last stop was something for him, and we chose a vibrating ring. This is a perfect little sex accessory, because both partners get pleasure at the same time, and it keeps him hard for a longer time. As I noticed that Ambrosia was getting a bit overwhelmed and slightly out of breath, we paid and bid the beautiful owner Sandra farewell. After a fun weekend in my little big Frankfurt city, I sent her back home to Zurich on a mission!

After two days, she called me with a chirpy happy voice. This was the voice of a sexually satisfied woman! She said that he was very surprised at the “goodies” that she brought back home with her. They tried everything out immediately, and it wasn’t scary or strange at all. They did it with love, care and passion for each other. She said that they were both very happy afterwards, and it really spiked up their sex life x 100! She said he woke up happy and vigorous the next day, brought her breakfast to bed, made love to her again, and left for work. They worked on strengthening their intimacy, and created a stronger sexual connection. It’s been over a year, and their sex life and bond is stronger than ever. Of course a good relationship is not only dependent on the amazing sex, but believe me, the wild passion definitely helps a lot! Keep your man in your bed, and give him something hot that he won’t need to find with someone else. Men are curious creatures, so keep him and yourself happy and satisfied.

A racy sex life, especially over the years in a long relationship, must be worked on. This doesn’t mean that you have to do dirty perverted crap that you don’t feel comfortable with, hell no! Experiment as far as you feel comfortable with. Maybe you won’t buy an anal plug on your first visit to a sex store, but rather a cool LELO Liv 2 vibrator for the both of you to use. You can always surprise your man by blind folding him, and using the vibrator on different parts of his body. If you are feeling extra courageous and frisky, try using your finger or tongue on and in places you have never used it before. Yes, he might freak out at first, but then he will quickly get over his macho resistance and really like this new experience. Believe me, he will never forget you or the things you do with him, I guarantee you this! There is nothing to be ashamed of. You are simply engaging in some experimentation with the man you love. So come on girls, grab your wallets and best friend, and make your way to your friendly neighborhood sex store. Or better yet, take your man with you, and pick out some fun toys together. It will be an experience that you both will never forget! So go ahead and be naughty… I dare you!

Sexy Underwear

Sexy Underwear 514 193 Galia Brener

As I was in the train this week, I had a wild vision flash through my mind. I imagined what everyone around me would look like if they had no clothing on. What a crazy unpredictable scene in my head! At that very second I had to look down and smile, pretty sure that my cheeks were as red as the shiny juicy cherries the guy across from me was eating. I imagined the ladies wearing lacy frilly see-through bras in black, hot pink and a few reds. The more daring dames had on matching transparent g-strings, showing a tiny bit of their own juicy cherry in the front. The men were wearing tight black boxers that visibly formed their packages, but with a little bit leftover for the imagination. Everyone was sitting normally, as if nothing peculiar was happening at all. It almost appeared that being half-naked on the train was a usual daily occurrence. Suddenly the train jerked to a full stop, and my arousing daydream vanished.

I ask myself, in reality, how many of those people really did have sexy underwear on? The secret of beautiful lingerie is that it is not just worn for another person, quite the opposite actually; it’s worn mainly for yourself! There is something very magical about putting on a gorgeous bra that contours your breasts in a sensual way, or a silk pair of Brazilian-cut panties that flatter the shape of your bottom. It’s not just the lingerie itself, it’s about the feeling that you get when wearing it! Wearing sexy lingerie can do wonders for your self-esteem. Feeling the soft silk and lace on your body can be quite nice, and since you know how hot you look underneath your clothing, these thoughts and feelings transfer to your exterior as well. Consider your lingerie as your Catwoman disguise from the inside out. Smile to yourself when wearing something nice underneath, and allow it to give you your superhero powers!

The lucky red panties. My friend Claudia has the most sensual and beautiful collection of lingerie that I have ever seen. She buys many of her sets at the Petit Boudoir store in Frankfurt, which is a hidden secret full of surprises. Even though she does not have a supermodel figure, she wears her underwear tall and proud! She has a beautiful Coca-Cola-bottle-shaped figure that even Marilyn Monroe would be jealous of. She calls her underwear her magic weapons, because when she walks down the street wearing her sexiest lingerie, she feels like a femme fatale. No one and nothing can get in her way, because her seduction is very charming, and makes her irresistible! Now, that’s what I call underwear with advantage! Claudia has been single for over two years, but that doesn’t stop her from spoiling herself and buying beautiful lingerie to feel good. She always says that she doesn’t need a man in her life in order to buy herself some nice panties. She does it for herself!

When we go out, Claudia tells me what hot lingerie set she has on, and I see how it subconsciously affects her mood. She has developed a fantastic theory that works both psychologically and physically. For example, her red lacy panties are her lucky ones. She somehow “convinced” herself over the years that they always bring her good luck and new acquaintances. She often meets a new man while wearing them on a night out (she really does – like magic!). Her silk black sets are the ones that make her appear mysterious and seductive to others. Her pink satin sets give her a wild yet playful girly feeling. Her lacy white lingerie gives her a strong sense of pride and innocence, like: “let’s-get-married-before-we-make-love-for-the-first-time” feeling – if you know what I mean. You can say it’s crazy, but I call it genius. The strangest thing is that it actually works! She always decides spontaneously by her moods, which color and feelings she wants to have for the night. But is this really magic, or just an excellent mind trick? After all, if you feel sexy and confident on the inside, you will exude it on the outside. If her lingerie helps to bring out her self-confidence, then why not wear it? Like we used to say in Toronto in the 90s: “Do whatever makes your panties wet!” – Meaning, do whatever makes you feel happy – and Claudia definitely does that.

Ever woman has a vamp hidden inside of her, and sexy lingerie helps to bring out this sultry mistress. Whether single or attached, wearing something naughty underneath your clothing may light up a bright fire of passion and seduction, and not to mention initiate hot sex! Also, if you are in a relationship and are looking for a way to spice up your love life, wearing something sexy under your clothes will go a long way! Imagine your partner slowly taking off your clothing and seeing the red lace seductively hugging your nipples. A man is a visual creature, and can’t resist seeing his woman in racy lingerie that shows the beauty of her body. Same goes for women dating women, and men as well! Who can say no to a boyfriend in a pair of sexy boxers, naked on top, wearing a big smile? I know many girls that save their nice underwear for a special occasion. Why save them? For whom and what? Who knows what will happen tomorrow? I would recommend taking out all of your nicest lingerie and start wearing it everyday, for yourself! And if you do not have any sexy lingerie, go out there and buy something that will make you feel like a seductive man-eater that you are and can be! After all, you only live once, so why not be a little naughty and experiment with your body and a tiny piece of silk between you legs.

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