GB Show #20: Galia Brener and Natascha Ochsenknecht in Club Med Mauritiushttps://www.galiabrener.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Galia_Natascha.jpg10431043Galia BrenerGalia Brenerhttps://secure.gravatar.com/avatar/93df0625fa48660aad1c99698d5d7757?s=96&r=g
Funny GB Show #20: Galia Brener and Natascha Ochsenknecht in Club Med Mauritius 😍 Watch me “try” the Flying Trapeze! Hahaha 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Best Friend or Enemy?https://www.galiabrener.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/Villa_mirror.jpg1200400Galia BrenerGalia Brenerhttps://secure.gravatar.com/avatar/93df0625fa48660aad1c99698d5d7757?s=96&r=g
Be careful whom you let into your life, because some women are cruel, egoistic, conniving and have an ice block where the heart is meant to be – and they will stop at nothing to get what they want. They are like a vampiric hurricane that storms into your life, sucks out your energy, destroys the love you have with your man, copies your identity and style, kills your good friendships and contacts, damages your career, ruins your life and “innocently” walks away after. Can an evil friend get away with such brutal behavior, or will Lady Karma eventually catch her by the hair and make her wish that she was never born?
This brings me back to a very unfortunate situation that my friend Ambrosia went through last year. She had a good friend whom she has known for many years – let’s call her “GreyMouse”. These two did everything together and were the classical definition of best friends. One day, Ambrosia met a really wonderful guy. They fell in love quickly, and started a warm, passionate and intense relationship. They had some occasional fights, but the love was strong. GreyMouse started acting strange towards Ambrosia. She felt the strong jealousy coming from her and GreyMouse was saying and doing things that hurt her. However, Ambrosia has a good heart and let a few things go, keeping in mind that GreyMouse was supposedly her “best friend.”
One day the bomb was dropped! After a year and a half of being together with her man, Ambrosia was trying to keep the relationship strong because they had some fights and problems along the way. They were at a very sensitive point, where a drama could destroy their bond. That’s exactly what happened. One evening they went out for dinner in a large group. GreyMouse sat beside Ambrosia’s boyfriend, and she was flirting with him while some funny stories were told. She wrapped her hands around his biceps saying how strong he was, and even poked her finger inside of his shirt, joking about his muscular hairy chest. Ambrosia hated it, but let it go, knowing that she was her good friend. Later on she saw GreyMouse talking to her guy outside, and wondered what the secrecy was all about. As she approached them, she heard GreyMouse saying, “…but you have to know something about Ambro, she likes to argue, have fights and needs drama in her life! She lives on it.” Ambrosia stopped mid-step and felt like the Earth was removed from her feet. What a vicious betrayal! After that sentence, her guy looked at her with different eyes.
They broke up a month after this scenario, and in their last fight, he said, “GreyMouse was right! You just love to argue and need this drama in your life! I don’t want this anymore.” That hit her like a block of cement on the face! GreyMouse implanted a “thought” in his head that night and he subconsciously accepted it as a “fact”. His mind registered: “If her best friend says this about her, then it must be true, because she knows her better than I do, so I will believe it.” Then it was over.
Ambrosia was destroyed for many months after that. She took the breakup very hard and was not able to move past it for a long while. Her heart was shattered into a million pieces! Why the hell did her friend say this awful crap about her to her boyfriend? What was the need to betray her in such a cruel way? But such evil actions never go unpunished. Karma will always show up and do her work properly. She is a lady on a mission and she misses nothing and no one! Sometimes it takes a week, sometimes it takes years, but Karma’s work always gets done! Evil also has a way of functioning like a boomerang – and it will strike back the person that released it in the first place. Months later, Ambrosia heard that GreyMouse had some misfortunes in her life.
Ladies, please choose carefully who you allow to enter your lives. Not everyone is genuinely happy for you! – Especially not those evil women pretending to be your good friends. Therefore, share as less as possible about your life and relationship details. The less personal information you expose to such snakes, the less jealousy and destruction will occur. Unless it’s a super trusted old friend, otherwise keep your business to yourself! Open up your eyes and pay attention to the small signs and things these people say and do. If you feel that something is not right, it usually isn’t. If you see there is too much jealousy and negativity, the best method is to remove them from you life immediately. Hatred and jealousy should not have a place in your life, and you must not let such people close to you, otherwise you will regret it. Like my Mama always says, “Who needs enemies if one has such evil friends?” Remove poisonous “friends” out of your life – the sooner, the better!
Is this a date or not?https://www.galiabrener.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/Gali_feature_applewine.jpg1354437Galia BrenerGalia Brenerhttps://secure.gravatar.com/avatar/93df0625fa48660aad1c99698d5d7757?s=96&r=g
Have you ever met with someone that you liked, went for dinner, maybe drinks after or even dancing, and at the end of the evening you get a hug and a friendly smile with a quick “thanks” and “bye”. You are left standing there wondering, “What the hell just happened? Was that even a date? Or does s/he only like me as a friend?” Rest assured that you are not alone and this strange confusion happens quite often.
My friend Bill met a girl that he really liked. They “hung out” and always had fun. They did many things together like go to shows, dinners and parties. However, Jessica never kissed him or showed any physical interest in him. They never spoke about romance or sexual things. Bill thought that she simply needs her time. He was falling for her, and was in denial without wanting to face the truth. This kept on going for a few months, and still nothing happened. I told Bill that even an extremely shy girl would have wanted to kiss him after a few months, given that she was interested in him as more than just friends. Slowly he was starting to realize that these were not “romantic” dates! I told him to ask her straightforward, but he didn’t have the courage and didn’t want to risk pushing her out of his life. He did fall in love with her in the process, and unfortunately got hurt after realizing that she only thought of him as a “friend”. This can be avoided if you pay attention to the following signs:
It’s a date:
1. He reserves a table at a restaurant and pays the bill.
2. S/he acts nervous around you on the first few dates.
3. There is some physical contact during the date – slight touching of forearm, elbow, etc. while talking.
4. You feel the chemistry and tension between you, and he wants / tries to kiss you.
5. S/he asks you a lot of questions, and seems genuinely interested in you, and wants to get to know you better. They show interest!
6. They compliment you in a flirty way.
7. S/he sends you a “Thank you and good night” text after the date.
8. He acts very chivalrous and is a gentleman, and tries to positively impress you.
It’s not a date:
1. S/he asks you to go to a group event, and doesn’t pay much attention exclusively to you.
2. If s/he asks you to “hang out”, and you end up doing something non-romantic at all.
3. Spending time with a colleague and talking mostly about work, without personal questions.
4. If s/he talks a lot about a love interest or a person they like.
5. Talks about their friends, and who would be a good match for you. Or gives you tips about dating, the opposite sex, flirting etc.
6. No effort with their physical appearance. No one wears sweat pants on dates.
7. S/he is not flirting or playful with you, and no kiss or physical intimacy.
8. They bring a friend with them.
We live in an era full of confusions, where a date can actually be a non-date, or the person you fell in love with actually thinks you are their best friend, and nowhere near a romantic interest at all. Listen to your gut feeling and pay attention to the other’s body language. You should “feel” if there is romantic tension or not, and never lie to yourself. Never run after someone that doesn’t want you, because that will damage your confidence and self-respect. Make yourself available for someone that sees how wonderful you are, and actually wants to have romantic dates with you!
The best advice I can give you is to be straightforward. Communicate and simply ask them in a cute way, “Are we going on a date?” with a smile while asking. This should never be an embarrassing thing to do! Better to say it straight up and know where you stand, rather than get hurt after, like my friend Bill did. We were born with mouths to speak and ask what we don’t understand. It’s so easy, but unfortunately we make it complicated for ourselves. Guessing games suck too much happiness away from you. Don’t guess, just ask.
My very close friend got married today, and I’m so happy for her. There was lots of love and happiness all around! It’s also the 9th day that I am smoke-free, and I found a balloon that wants to take me to the stars. Plus Germany won the soccer game right now. Today is a very good day. Enjoy life my dear friends ❤️
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